20 year old dating 16 year old ok
Yes, you may be ridiculed by friends, but if you own it, they can't shun you for it! The only positives are weed, sex, and cars, and I have none of those right now." -Me "Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that.Hatred cannot drive out hatred; only love can do that." -Martin Luther King Jr. I have quite a few friends that have or had boyfriends that were 3 years older than them, and I think that's absolutely normal and fine.
Because peoples social groups tend to be within around /- 3 years (roughly, could be 2, could be 5), it is understandable that, of course, your chances of wanting to date someone a little older or younger increase Two years is not a big age difference and neither of you is of legal age while the other is underage.
Apparently, so did SHE, since she didn't date the entire time she was in high school for that exact reason. To the parents out there that say they would not let there 17 year old daughter date a 20 year old boy. Lets just say YOU THINK you know everything that's happening. Do you think a 20 year old dating a 17 year old is wrong?
I agree that there's generally a big difference between 20 and 17, which is why generally I don't date younger women and I've made it a rule not to date high school girls. As for not dating in the work place, if I had some important job I would agree. Of course it is WRONG, unless the woman is the 20 year old and the 17 year old is a male. when I was in High School I had next to nothing in common with them. Anyway, I also think you're maybe looking for an excuse, or somebody's permission. If she or her parents have a problem you'll find out soon enough, even if you don't ask them.
I knew she was still in high school but I figured she was either 18 or close to it, but then she said she was just turning 17. I've never dated a girl younger than me even, but I really do like this girl. She's almost 3 years younger than me but she's not a little kid or anything either.
I'm curious about the opinions of parents (would they have a problem with a 17 year old dating a 20 year old? Dude are you serious i have a 17 year old daughter i would beat you with a bat.
It is possible people may look down on you for dating someone still in middle school while you are in high school, but it's your happiness and your relationship.